Signs of troubles for couples
All is far in love and war. What does that saying really mean?Are they presuming that the two are very similar?I can’t be too positive that it was the intended meaning, but there are a lot of things that are similar between the two.
The things that are the same I guess are when the two turns from love into war. It may still be love between the two but they are at each other like it is war. I have seen this first hand doing couples counseling San Diego. A once loving couple is now fighting constantly.It is my main purpose is to be able to bring peace between the couple.And reclaim that long lost loving relationship.
So what are the signs of trouble?One of the warning signs that is a huge sign is the lack of communicating. Or should I say lack of communication.For practically all relationships, knowing how to communicate is essential.Since it is crucial, if you as a couple are able to know that there is less communication, that is a sign.It is a sign or warning of trouble. Whether I am doing couples counseling or as a marriage counselor in San Diego I see it all the time. After all if you can’t communicate, every little thing can become a big problem.Being able to communicate effectively helps to prevent that.
So as a family therapist San Diego one of the biggest things I do is try to teach the couple how to communicate.One of the biggest secrets to effective communicating is being able to listen.A lot of people when they think of being able to communicate they think it refers to talking. But really if you don’t listen well, you don’t really understand each other. So by helping the couple listen better their communication improves greatly.
By being able to spot this sign, a couple will be able to better know that trouble may be starting.Now if the couple can spot this problem early in their relationship, they might be able to avoid some serious problems. From my experience the best way to solve problems in a relationship is to avoid them.But if you don’t notice it early, the way to solve it best is to learn how to effectively communicate.Sounds basic but what it can do is have a major role in the problem.